So there's someone in my life, we started off as friends and ended up dating for a few months. I broke up with him because I wasn't happy with monogamy, he and I are trying to be friends again but I know deep down he wants to get back together.

How do I tell him that if we were to get back together, monogamy isn't on the table?

I'm currently dating 2 people who are both ENM and I really love the dynamic, am I being selfish for not wanting to give this up?

Update: after talking for a really long time today he's going to take some time for himself. I said that's 100% understandable and he can reach back out when / if he feels comfortable.

I also told him - live your best life, chase your dreams and find that person that sets your soul on fire.