Hi everyone,

I (27M) have been in a stable relationship with my current girlfriend (22F) for almost an year atm. We have an incredible sexual chemistry, and I'm in deep love with her in all aspects. Our sex is the best I've had in my life, and I find her to be so charming and attractive.

Still, I constantly feel attraction to other women. I know that may be healthy and natural, but it's overwhelming sometimes for me and makes me feel guilty, to the point where I ask myself if I will be satisfied for undefined amounts of time in a monogamous relationship. That makes me feel so guilty, because it's not like my girlfriend isn't doing incredible as my sexual partner... But sometimes I feel like I need to have this kind of freedom — of having sexual contact with other people, different bodies and etc.

In other words, if I had to pick my favorite person it would always be her, but if I could have the freedom of sometimes having fun with other women, I'd love to, and I'm sure that wouldn't affect my love for her — it might even make me admire her more.

How should I cope with these feelings? Do I have nonmonogamous tendencies or am I just an overly sexual person who is confused?