Together 28 years. Married 18. Former lifestyle Kids 13 & 16. Long term marriage issues on both sides and have been in and out of therapy. At it again individually and together We work well together, parent well, have a great family life, care for one another, but the physical intimacy is gone for me. It was damaged and disconnected years ago, like four and we haven’t had any sex in almost a year. It was damaged by the lack of emotional safety and intimacy So be it. I want him in my life always I want our family my together but I want fucking space, time, freedom and romance and sex back in my life. It feels impossible to tell him this

I want to get my own place and have that for three or four nights a week, and then come home. Is that insane?!