Me: I'm a 28-year-old Dom who is living in the Northern NJ area for the forseeable future. I'm 5'9", 150lb, have an engineering degree, and a white-collar job. I have great friends, a loving family, and probably a handful of enemies. I am a firm believer in the Oxford comma, and if you aren't, we may have problems already. I'm a weird combination of preppy and nerdy. I hate writing personal bios because it feels like I'm applying for a job, but I'll answer any questions you have privately.
Kinky Me: While I enjoy most forms of physical and mental submission, I love anything involving light bondage, cnc, ddlg, teasing, and sensation play. The list goes on. Most everything can be found here. As for any other likes and dislikes, I am open to try most things once, and I would hope you are as well.
What I am looking for: Ideally, you are a like-minded, single, monogamous individual in my area. From there, we will see how things go. Experience level doesn't matter to me, especially with the right partner. I have had some fantastic interactions with those new to the scene and those who are quite experience.
But moreso than sexual compatibility, I'm looking for someone who can be a life partner. Happy hours, road trips, shared and unshared hobbies... Regardless, everything depends on there being chemistry between us and what we're both looking for.
I recognize that there is a lot of trust, respect, and communication involved in any power exchange, which doesn't manifest itself overnight. Those three qualities are very important to me in all aspects of my life, so I emphasize them here even more. I am eventually looking for an equal/partner who wants to grow and experiment with me.
Who should message me: I am open to friendships, mentoring those new to the scene, and casual play, but I'm mostly looking for something long-term. If for some reason you're still reading this and think we may have some chemistry, shoot me a message, and we can see where things go.
Regards,
LocumTenens
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