So, even at 44 (and I am told I look younger, if age is a thing you care about), I am still trying to figure out exactly what I want in a partner. I am asexual, and for me, that means I am not interested in PiV sex. I am quite interested in all other aspects of sex and sexuality, simply not intercourse. What I am growing to understand that means is, I greatly enjoy getting a partner off, literally as often or as much as they can take. Oral, digital, toys, teasing, I love all of it. I even own many toys that I just sort of hoard, for when I find a partner. I am open to a long term relationship, but I am also open to short term, or even just casual. I think I really want to use the skills I have, and just make someone feel good as much as I can. I have a rather low sex drive, and my sexuality is a bit complicated (to me), so someone hypersexual may also be better equipped to help me figure it out. I have met several women from reddit in real life, and the ones that were okay with the lack of intercourse, have all been very, very happy. I think it is fair to say, I would prefer someone close to me, within an hour or two, who doesn’t mind coming to me most of the time. Long distance is okay, short term, or if you are just looking for someone to play with you (having an app controlled toy is obviously a bonus). I have numerous previous posts in this sub, and they are all honest, but as I continue to post, I strive to be more honest about what it is I think I am looking for.
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