First of all, sorry for the long post. I didn't mean to write a novel but I kinda did. It's just that I know what I want and I have specific ideas. This isn't for everyone. And I'm not desperate, if I don't find what I'm looking for, I'm not going to "settle". I just won't do it.

I really like giving head. I find it relaxing. I am fascinated by the endless variety of penises. They really are like snowflakes, each one is unique. I try to tailor my technique to the man's specific anatomy and response. I spent about a year in Europe and gained a lot of experience going down on natural/uncircumcised males. Then I spent about a year in a larger U.S. city and developed my skills at the somewhat more challenging task of going down on circumcised males. After moving to where I live now, I looked back and thought about the many, many men I sucked and decided in a new place, I didn't want to start off with a bad reputation. So I pretty much stopped for over a year. Lately I have been missing it and I decided to try again but I'm going to do it in a more controlled way. Hence, this post. I want to set up some methodology and guidelines. I'm going to be in New Jersey for a few weeks at the middle/end of September, so it seems like an ideal time.

You'll start by removing your pants and your underwear and presenting yourself to me. This might feel awkward, men are conditioned to think that their genitals are ugly and gross and unfortunately a lot of women make them feel that way. Any woman who actually feels like that will be terrible at blowjobs - you can't fake it. I will spend some time inspecting it to get a good sense of its specific anatomy.

If you have been circumcised, I'll use my tongue and lips and maybe lightly a finger to find out where your sensitive spots are - for most of you, it will be in the area behind the head or along your circumcision scar, but it could be literally anywhere. Once I determine your sensitive spots I will focus on them for most of the blowjob. For a natural uncircumcised male I will focus on the foreskin itself - my impression is that most women tend to ignore it completely, which is a huge mistake. On any type of male I will use one hand to cup the balls and the other to run my fingers through and twirl the pubic hair so the whole area is stimulated.

A few general ground rules:

• Ideally, you are seated in front of me with your legs apart. I kneel on the ground in front of you. Your hands are at your sides, or you may gently stroke my hair, but do not push my head down on your crotch. Just relax and enjoy the sensations.

• It's best if you moan or breathe heavy or otherwise give me feedback. You must tell me when you feel yourself getting close and tell me when your orgasm is about to begin. Under no circumstances should you ejaculate without clear advance warning. If you're a premature ejaculator, no problem - it's kind of flattering actually!

• I'm not really looking for anything beyond giving you head, at least not at first. If there is mutual interest, then maybe eventually. But for right now, let's focus on BJ.

• Do NOT offer me money or gifts or any other sort of compensation. I am not an escort. If we do this it's because we both want to, not because I want anything else from you. Don't offer and don't imply any kind of financial transaction.

• Your pubic hair must be natural. No shaved or noticeably trimmed crotches. [A lion does not trim his mane, LOL.] It may be a minority opinion, but I like the look and texture of the hair. The thicker and curlier, the better. If you have shaved or trimmed, you may write to me of course, but the BJ won't happen until you have grown it back.

• I'm 26, I have a fit/petite body, long dark hair, Italian (fellow Italians are welcome but not required of course!). There's a photo of my eye in my profile LOL. If you send me a pic of you, I will reply with one of me. You don't have to send immediately, but photos would be required before actually considering a meeting.

I'm sure I'm missing some stuff but this has already gotten to be way too long, so I'll leave it at that. If you made it this far and have some interest, please feel free to send me a message. Please tell me your age and location when you write and include any information you think is relevant. Thanks and have a great Saturday!