TL;DR: Discord creep claims he might be an incel, believes I'm his ex, obsesses over bi friend and stalks her from 4 different alts in the last month.

Get ready for a rather long read. Also trigger warning for mentions of rape/assault.

So, a friend of mine made a discord server about 3 months ago to meet new people and debate deeper more science oriented stuff at times. Me and my other friends are all moderators there. Everything was going great until this nice guy/neckbeard/straight out creep joined.

We'll call him N. N seemed like a normal gamer guy at the beginning, talking about the MOBA he was playing and about more controversial topics at times. Soon enough, we found out he's rather homophobic and quite mysoginistic, saying how some abused women like being beaten up, kept calling me and other queer friends SJWs and hardcore feminists, only to claim that he was joking afterwards. He even went as far as to say that "forced lesbianism" (aka a woman raping another woman) wasn't mentally damaging, while a guy raping a guy was way worse, and many other creepy and worrisome things. These are just some of the things he's said all the while when he was on the server. At the same time, he'd talk about having had a gf who apparently left him for another guy and now he's still obsessing over her and calling her a fat whale bitch at the same time. I honestly doubt he's ever had a gf as he seems to misinterpret friendliness for romance. More stuff to follow.

He got us into playing that MOBA game with him and he'd oftentimes join VC to talk to us during the game. He was really loud, angry about his kills being stolen and overall swore a whole lot all the time. One time a friend called him to ask him to hang out and N angrily told him he has people to play games with and that he doesn't want to come watch a boring football match with him.

One day, I was home alone and so I joined VC with another friend and talked to her all day along with playing that game with her. He joined later on in the evening. The next day I was home alone again and decided to play some more. N came up and immediately joined my game, asking me over and over again to join VC with him. I declined and his response was: "But yesterday you were in VC all day with (friend)". I just told him I didn't feel like talking to anyone that day, played 1-2 games with him then left.

At a point, I remember we were discussing incels (someone shared an RSlash video or something similar), and N asked what an incel is. I did my best to explain and even sent him a screenshot of the definition on Google and his response was that "it's an SJW definition cause then it means he's an incel". Yikes.

I don't know why but his behavior had always made me uneasy, maybe because of his creepy opinions and views about the world, maybe the incel comment, but I never wanted to end up in a VC or game with him again, so I started hiding my game activity on discord. 

One day I get a pm from N with him asking me: "is your irl name (NAME)?" "No, it's not" "are you sure? you act a lot like (NAME) and even draw like her" "no I'm not (NAME), my nickname comes from something else" "fine I won't ask anymore...".

Apparently he thought I must have been his ex? Or a girl who kept coming by his print shop and who he kept talking about. Yikes once again. Here's where his first obsessive behavior showed up.

Meanwhile, N moved on to his next target, a friend I'll call D. D is one of the queer friends who N had called an SJW and a hardcore feminist several times before. D didn't take things seriously at the time and she just kept acting normally. N and D kept exchanging DMs of just casual daily stuff, only that N didn't think these DMs were friendly DMs. 

After about a month from the server's creation, its maker and D decided to meet with N and another guy in a park. Me and another friend declined the invitation, being busy on our own but also not really wanting to meet a stranger after such little time. D told me that N would only talk about the MOBA game he played, literally showing them videos of the game on his phone for the whole time they were out. At times, he'd just stare at her and say nothing. 

A month passes again, and N was talking with the server's maker about how he had an alt account in the server. I was at my friend's place and since she let me use her laptop and discord I asked him from her account "hey what do you need an alt for? (this is NAME btw)". He replied with "of course it's (NAME), she's the only one who's this nosy". I was sick of his smartass responses and behavior so far so I just blocked him on discord, and the MOBA game. After a while he noticed that I was ignoring him and he kept DMing the server owner "why is (NAME) not talking to me anymore????" She simply told him that he was a jerk and that was it.

With me out of the picture, N moved further on to D. The insults kept going and whenever D or the server owner acted annoyed by it, N would pull out the "I'm suicidal and depressed" card. He went as far as sending the owner videos and photos of a propane tank, a hose and a sack with the caption "been thinking to do this since new years....", along with several messages about how people always push him away and the sorts. 

In the end, D had enough and blocked him on discord and on the game he played. N was mad as hell. He kept spamming the owner with dms about D over and over, all until one day he left the server. We thought we were good. We were wrong. After a week he joined with an alternate account only to be able to send D dms again, then left. He sent her over 58 DMs at 7 am. DMs about how heartless and hateful she was for blocking him after talking daily, about how he actually liked her before but only platonically. Sure dude, we all knew you were crushing hard on D when she liked girls more. He even told her to call him if she wants to talk it out and that he's not returning to the server cause both me and her bullied him. Mind you, I haven't spoken to him in a month, if being ignored due to being blocked is bullying to him, then congrats I guess I just bullied you. D blocked his alt, his phone number, everything and the server owner banned both the old and the alt account. 

More time passes, someone new joins the server. Every day we see some suspicious patterns in the user's behavior. He used ellipses in every sentence, had mysoginistic views, was kinda homophobic, and stayed in VC alone at night waiting for people to show up (that's what N always did). We've reached the conclusion that it was another alt, and so we banned him. And we were right. He got angry that another user was badmouthing N and he suddenly hopped in the argument despite him claiming to be new and not to know who N was. Great way to blow your cover. 

Yesterday, N came back again and immediately tagged D to say he's sorry(for the hundredth time). We banned him again, and then he went to the owner once again, confessing about how his last alt was really him and that he has another alt on the sever. At the same time he also began another emotional tirade about him feeling sick an suicidal again, and the owner just blocked him.

We're extremely uneasy right now since we have no idea who the new alt might be and D feels stalked and unsafe. This is the first time ever where I get to witness such an intense case of obsession and stalking and I really hope our Discord reports will get him banned for good off the platform.