I talk about the fun we have in the VIP and tell him where he can't touch in a flirtatious way. I play into the fantasy but don't quite shame hi.

Also if its obvious that the guy is wanting sex and haggling with you about it, don't waste your time. This is true if you notice him being cheap and not tipping. Just tell him what you offer and tell him to come find you if he's interested in a VIP. And walk away.

When I was new I wasted too much time with losers haggling me. Your time is valuable. Walking away tells them that your boundaries are not up for negotiation. The time wasted with a haggling customer could be better used with a customer who is willing to get a dance or vip.

In the room if he's getting handsy I hold it and guide it away or say "uh uh uh, be good for me" and most guys get the idea. If not, I give him a warning that I can't do this and he continues I'll have to stop the dance and walk away without a refund. Again use your judgment.

If he whips his dick out, fingers or tries to assault, I just walk out and tell a manager. That's my clubs rules.