Hubby and I have been discussing lately about attending a club. Three years ago our daughter moved out and we got our lives back, meaning also a more freely and exciting sex life. Soon it’s my birthday and I would like to take him to Stockholm or Gothenburg. Maybe not the fanciest places to start with, but there are not many choices in Sweden that I'm aware of. He's 52 and I'll be 53 this month. We both look good in our ways, I'm 5'8", 142 lbs, leaning to the thinner side, though I have my dents (c-section, cellulite and scars after a necessary breast surgery, I have the perkiest boobs ever - no implants). He is 5'6", slim, fit, toned, circ, shaved/trimmed. I am more introverted while he is on the exhibitionist side. We are interested in parallel play or soft swap, though I'm not interested in women, we both are straight. So far I am interested in an MFM and he is very interested in an FMF and a club would be perfect for our future endeavors. I'd love to watch others and get in the mood. What should we expect from our first visit? Are we gonna get "accepted" or are we gonna stick out too much? We have no idea about the sexy clothing, though I cover the "formal" one. I know Shein is a very good candidate site for sexy clothing, but if someone would message me some links of potential outfits for me, I'll be more than happy. I just have no idea what type I should wear.