I just wanted to talk about this because I feel terrible when someone brings it up to me. So I have issues with my tone of voice when talking a lot. I think I sound not rude or like sound like I am having an attitude or whatever and then someone at work will be mad at me for it. Like recently one of my coworkers asked me if I hated another coworker because of literally my tone. And she used the example of when he tries to talk to me while it’s really busy (I work at a grocery store). And I’m like “that’s because we are busy and I’m trying to focus on bagging and taking care of the shopping carts. “ and then she brought up the fact about my tone and voice and kept on saying stuff about it. And in return I bluntly say “I can’t control my tone.”. Not to mention one time I got called into the bosses office for me because of this and I tried my best to tell her that I can’t control it. And it just makes me feel like garbage. And I have had the same issues with friends and family.

I just hate that I hurt people because of this without meaning to.