I am super sensitive to anything pertaining to the title. Being accused falsely. Or people assuming the worst.

I guess, sometimes us neurospicy people can rub people up the wrong way with how we communicate. But I also find whenever I explain myself that people are inclined to tell me my true intentions are sweet or earnest and they can see what I mean and even thank me.

My question/rant is while I appreciate that not everyone's brain works the same. Why do I always need to be the one walking on eggshells? Why can't people assume the best and then ask for clarity of they're unsure?

Do others experience the same? How do you deal with this?

I makes me want to crawl into a hole whenever this happens.