Hey there lovely fellas, I hope you are doing well. It’s going to be a long post, so just bear with me. Why I’m writing this? Yes there is a very specific reason, I had to let go my submissive recently and this thing has totally messed me up. I was emotionally attached to her but then life happened. I just want those feelings and experience back in my life, I want to be loved again, I want to love someone again.

Me & BDSM:

I’m 26 years old from India, an engineer by profession. I am currently in Mumbai but orignally from north India. I am around 5’7”, wear specs, and have a lean body. I have a beard and I just love it. I love music, binge watching and traveling. So, I came to know about bdsm at the age of 18 when it was introduced to me by my ex-gf and later that relation turned into a dom-sub dynamics. It lasted for 5 years. Those five years taught me the true essence of BDSM and I realised that this is the thing that suits me. After this I had few short-term flings and then I met her. She was amazing and yes I met her online. We were an instant hit. She took care of me really well and in return I gave her all of my love. Sadly, we had to end this thing, we ended it on a good note. But as they say you can’t stay away much from BDSM and yes I’m craving for it.

About you

Please be a decent person. I don’t expect you to be a hotshot, I just want you to be a loving, kind and a caring person. I value honesty and loyalty, so if this is you then hands down, we are a good match for sure.

I’m a straight guy who leans more towards dominant side, so you need to be a 18 female submissive or female switch. It’s alright if you’re a newbie or experienced, just be your true self when you talk to me. Location is not an issue for me, you can be from any part of this planet. I’m open for couples as well but you guys have to approach me together. I don’t have interest in ruining someone’s marriage so if you both of you guys are in this together, then I might consider this.

It’s very likely that you’re going to be from a different place, so I would like to make it very clear that I’m open for meetings and possibly more if things go really well between us, not an issue for me. .

How this dynamics is going to be!

I like being in control, so I want full control over you. Yes it takes time and I’m up for it. I’d like to know more and more about you before jumping into any sort of dynamics, so just be patient. We’ll start it slow, we’ll get to know each other and then slowly I’m going to take over. Also, I seek for both emotional connection and physical attraction. If we came into a bdsm relationship then we’re going to have regular interactions over audio/VC (Both sexual and Non Sexual). We’ll have daily tasks and occasional short/long sessions and punishments too, haha they are very important. I love teasing and troubling my submissives a lot and this is non negotiable (HaHa).

We are going to have a detailed discussion on each other’s kinks but one thing is for sure that I don’t like anything filthy, anything illegal and no permanent marks.

I think it’s enough for today, just hit me up if you want the same thing. Keep it simple but unique. Do tell me about your favourite colour (we can use it as our safe word), mine is blue.

Cheers! <3