Sigh. Here for probably the same reason just of us are. In California's beautiful Central coast, so not next to all of you beautiful NorCal or LA/SD adjacent people. Still a nice area with all kinds of people, so maybe one of you reading this is a kind woman with similar needs, living somewhere within meeting distance and of a compatible disposition for us to befriend each other?

I'm well, not Brad Pitt or Tom Brady, but instead more of a relatively average guy who would love to have their fitness level. (I'm more of a dad bod.) Hispanic, fluent bilingual with Spanish and English, and a bit rusty at French. 😅 I like outdoorsy stuff, but don't do as much of it as I would like to. Maybe you can become my hiking partner, or something, lol. Not scared of bugs, if that matters to you, and generally easy to talk to.

I'm looking for a friend first, with benefits to follow, if we both connect, 👍 and yes, I'm shameless enough not to turn down a hook up, if everything aligns right. I assume that even if we're here, we both have lives that take priority over sexy time. Boiler plate horny talk aside, I would like to connect with someone near me, not out to find their next ex-husband, but just a good connection between two people looking for a bit more outside of the 'normal channels' whatever that might mean for you.

PS. As I know this area posts infrequently, if you stumble into my post sometime in the future, send me a DM anyway. There's no telling where things will be when you find this, and I'm happy to chat with a local.