Hello Reddit community! I’m a 24 year old Asian cub seeking a discreet fwb cougar/older woman/mentor (average build is okay, not trying to go for J-Lo but that would be cool) here in the Peninsula area of the San Francisco Bay Area. I’m average build (skinny fat, but working on getting toned lol), fairly handsome, and recent college grad. I think I’m pretty confident and outgoing. It’s really been on my mind lately and want to follow-through, but don’t know where to look for opportunities. Need some advice on where to successfully find some cougars seeking around here or online. I’ve been signing up (and paying! not so sure about this investment lol) for cougar-specific sites like Cougarlife, Seeking Arrangement, and AAF, but no luck or been contacted by bots (as expected). Cougars and cubs welcome to respond! Hope to get some good traction going here.