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Last night my wife and I got onto a serious conversation about fucking other people... I came clean saying I've been fantasizing about having sex with someone else but haven't done it, and she said she was relieved because she's been having the same thoughts! We're just sexually incompatible.
We both don't want to look back on our sexual prime and wonder "what if" but we also don't want to jeopardize our future with each other. We know there's more to life than sex, especially later. I told my wife that I want her to be happy and not live with regrets. I know I can't give it to her the way she wants/needs it (hard and long) and she doesn't give it to me the way I like it either (lots of foreplay).
I think the biggest hurdle for us to overcome is finding someone that will have sex with me. I know there are plenty of guys out there that will fuck my wife, she's not only gorgeous but finding a man that wants to fuck is very easy. She's concerned that she'll find someone very easily and I will not (very likely) and that she will be happy while I'll be miserable (also likely). I'm also worried about that scenario. If I can find someone that is OK with my situation then I'll feel a lot better encouraging my wife to do the same.
All this is just preliminary talks obviously, so I can't guarantee that it would actually happen if I do find someone. If you're interested you have to be patient with me/us so we know it's the right move.
About me: 5'10" 185 lbs Not as fit as I once was but not too far gone either I'd say I'm about a 7 as far as looks go
I have pictures to exchange if we get along
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