(If you know the song I'm referring to in the title, I'd request you to please reach out).

Sometimes, life puts you in situations where you're forced to act against your beliefs. I had never imagined I'd be here, looking for an OA, yet here I am. On a superficial level, things are fine at home. But if you examine deeply, there's no connection.

That's what I'm here for - the explicable connection. Something which makes sense in a weird way, something which makes you want her to stay, something that keeps the negativity at bay, and someone who adds to the happiness of the day.

I firmly believe that an emotional connection and honest communication is the absolutely essential for any kind of relationship. So, obviously, when it comes to an OA, it is of paramount importance. It not only makes things exciting, and but it also leads to better intimacy. I'd prefer someone non-judgemental, intellectual (you don't have to be a nerd), and patient.

Me: I'm in EST, and I'm married with no kids. I'm into music, sports, and literature. I enjoy deep conversations. To be honest, they're a massive turn-on. I'm 5'11", athletic and very fit. I workout pretty regularly, and I play sports quite regularly too. I have a decent job which helps me pay bills. I'm ambitious, possessive, passionate and good at communication. Oh, and I love quotes and one-liners.

I'm looking for someone who resonates with something I've listed above. Someone genuine, empathetic, passionate and someone who understands that day-to-day life will go hand-in-hand with an OA. I know attraction is important too. I'd prefer that you take care of your health (both physical and mental). I'm happy to exchange pictures whenever you're comfortable to do so. I'm looking for someone in the age range of 28-40.

I know finding a connection is incredibly hard. But it makes sense, right? Given how human nature is, finding someone who strikes a chord should be rare. Probably that's why it's such a special, out-of-the-world feeling when it finally happens.

If any of the above clicks with you, tell me what your favorite movie, song, book or quote is.