Like a lot of others here I am DEEP in the dead bedroom and ignored partner stage, and frankly it’s not the trip to paradise I was promised by all the cranky old men who while away their days playing checkers in front of the old country store. Actually I’m not sure I’ve experienced that but it has provided clarity on a number of historic breakthroughs accomplished over time. Things like Kung Fu, put a bunch of young guys in a monastery up on a mountain with only martial arts and they will come up with some crazy things. High level physics, simply substitute a monastery with a college and it’s not too different.

Either way I’d love to meet an amazing woman that is also finding themselves feeling less than desired both emotionally and physically at home and on the verge of finding a civilization altering breakthrough.

For me it has been way too long since I have connected deeply with a woman physically, mentally and emotionally. And while things are fine at home they are not any more or less than that, something I could also say about my roommates in college. I miss conversations that are deep and flirty, peppered with innuendo but also with a touch of reality when the situation at work or home is less than ideal. Trading pictures and building each other up as we prepare to meet, whether it is the first time for coffee/drinks/whatever or if we’ve determined we want to have a closer relationship.

Alright, so you’ve read my ramblings and you’re not dissuaded so who am I? I am a married dad with one successful attempt at procreation under my belt (which coincidentally was my last time experiencing the wonders of human anatomy and physiology). I am tall with less than a model physique, and definitely less than the suburban dad physical aesthetic. Built more like a linebacker or a lumberjack with ocean blue eyes and all my hair. I have a degree and a job doing something I care about with hobbies that keep me moving and active.

I’d love to meet someone that is educated, active, fit and can relate to the dynamics and toll of a dead bedroom. Someone wanting a long term physical and emotional affair that will make you feel special and wanted again, all things that I want for myself. Looking forward to meeting you!