Maybe you're randomly scrolling through ad posts or pretty serious about finding that connection. Either way, a brief chat to check our vibe wouldn't hurt, right?

I've had experience with this dynamic and both know what I want and what I bring to the table. I offer a true connection-emotional to the extent we're comfortable and, of course, physical. Daily texts, leaning on each other through life events, being each other's rock, and those in person escapes with all the build up and excitement that comes with it.

I'm a successful, white professional- 43yo, 6'0", 185 athletic/fit. Youthful in appearance and spirit.

My kids are my world and my career is extremely important to me. I'm passionate about my friends, health/fitness, cycling, self-growth, DIY projects, music, and helping others.

My best friends would describe me as witty, charming, playful and genuine with a well managed ego. I would add that I'm an excellent communicator with high emotional intelligence. I think that's important to highlight in this dynamic. I'm down to earth and don't take myself to seriously.

I'm attracted to women who have affectionate/sensual personalities, healthy female energy, open-mindedness, great communication skills. Someone who values health/ fitness is also important.

In a perfect world, we'll establish a close bond on multiple levels and meet as frequently as we can. My work travel schedule allows me a lot of flexibility in terms of meeting and my OPSEC is very solid. I'm not interested in LD unless you visit Chicago often-or maybe I visit your city for work.

Low effort messages will be ignored (hint, responding with "Hi" and nothing else is low effort).

I'm looking for the real deal here and I know you're out there. So if you are too, send me a message and let's see if we might be a good match.