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Letās be each otherās reason to smile and get ācaughtā glancing at our phones and laughing.
Iām hoping for someone in a similar situation whoās ready to build a new connection: also married, also a parent, not entirely unhappy but home life is lacking. Someone interested in the long term who is kind, passionate, confident, conversational, likes to laugh and doesnāt take themselves too seriously.
Recent experiences in these parts have shown that I need to be very specific, so please read and save us from both wasting our time:
Please have prior experience with an in-person AP. Seriously. We all have to start somewhere, but that isnāt here.
Please be local to NJ and have the ability to get around freely. Iām not a pit stop - not looking for someone who just passes through the state on occasional business.
Please have a basic interest in my body type. If you havenāt been attracted to plus-size women in the past, itās likely Iām not going to do it for you.
Please be accepting of the fact that there is some level of risk involved. Iām never going to meet you for the first time in a hotel room because youāre too scared to get a drink or a cup of coffee.
Please be emotionally available. Yes, Iām looking for a relationship. Not a FWB. Not a random hook up. If that terrifies you and youāre not able to compartmentalize, we likely arenāt a good fit.
I am not looking to rush into anything. We can take our time, chat and talk, get to know each other - but not looking to drag my feet, either.
I know this is a lot - and, if you got this far, awesome! Send me a message and letās see what happens. Iām looking forward to hearing from you.
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