About me

I'm a 52 year old married man living in the Metrowest. I've been married for 10 years and I have two children in elementary school. This is not my first rodeo with regard to affairs.

Things I like include whispering, the smell of old books, reading at night with a scented candle burning, daydreaming, tea, vinyl records, antiques, cats, linen sheets, a fire in the fireplace, sweater days, prime numbers, and puzzling over the mysteries of existence.

I'm 5'10" and well dressed and I have an average build and a handsome face. I value physical fitness and exercise 5-6 days a week. I keep myself well groomed, and I don't have facial hair. I don't smoke, drink excessively, or do drugs. I'm highly educated, articulate, and enjoy conversing about a wide range of topics. I also work an executive-level professional job with flexible daytime hours, such that I can escape to meet you during the day.

Sexually ... not vanilla. I'm kinky and I'm a switch; I can be either the in-control partner or the submissive one, depending on my mood. I'm STD free and get tested on a regular basis. I'm happy to provide proof of this.

What I'm looking for

I'm interested in finding a long-term AP, ideally within an hour's drive of me. You must be married or in a long-term relationship. My ideal match will have prior experience with affairs and the associated OPSEC, though I'm open to first-timers.

I'm not picky about height, though I hope to find someone who is physically as attracted to me as I am to her.

Most importantly, I am looking for a person with whom I can develop a deep connection. I want raunchy, crazy sex, but I also want somebody whom I can talk with, laugh with, text endlessly with, and feel comfortable around.

If it sounds like we might be a match, please reach out and tell me what music you have in heavy rotation lately or what book you're reading. Thanks, and I can't wait to hear from you!