Good morning ladies, I’m here again looking for my best friend. A soul mate even. Albeit digitally and in my pocket 😂. As you can tell by my advanced age, I’m not here for games. I’m looking to make a meaningful connection, and I’m here for LONG TERM. I don’t want a passionate weekend, or a single afternoon that makes me consider leaving work and driving hours to meet someone….only to be left on read or worse, just up and ghosted. I want a deep, thoughtful, connected relationship. More than just good mornings and good nights, I want hey how are the kids, how’s your mom etc conversations. Also, don’t be afraid to talk about your spouse, I’m not about spouse bashing, since I don’t want to change your life situation, I’m here to ENHANCE your life. Ok…I think I ramble long enough, let’s get down to my checklist:

You: AT LEAST 30, married with children. Age of the children isn’t a biggie but having children at least keeps us in similar lifestyles and demands for our time. It brings us a better understanding of each other. PLEASE be willing or able to chat more than a ‘good morning’ and then disappear for the rest of the day. I know life is busy and hectic, but I want to get to know you and I can’t do that with a single two word message once a day. Also, as is natural sometimes I need help keeping the conversation alive so please be willing to do some of the heavy lifting with me. THIS IS A PARTNERSHIP after all lmao.

Ok me time: I’m a father who works full time but not like a demanding job, so I have time all day, and even nights. So you’ll get messages from me all day. I’m a music lover, and I play guitar, not well but hey, I’m not a rockstar outside of my bedroom 😂. I play video games, and I’m a lover of any game that involves zombies! (I’m old, not mature lol). I’m a nerd, I have adhd for sure, and I want to use my hyper focus on you. I live to please, and I love learning new things. I hope this rambling makes sense to someone out there!

Awesome, if you made it this far I hope you understand and like what you read! If you did, tell me your current favorite song? Chats are enable.

OH ONE MORE THING: NO MAGA. FUUUUUCK THE FANTA FASCIST! I WILL NOT TOLERATE AND RIGHT OR RIGHT LEANING APPLICANTS. Seriously, piss off.

ETA: PLEASE BE IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP. Why are you single people trolling an affairs sub?! Cmon.