Hey there,

First of all I hope this message finds you well. So none of what’s on this post is some prefabricated statement that’s just copied and pasted. I’m the kind of person that just shoots from the hip and goes with the flow. I think that most of us on here have a lot of similarities and deficiencies that compel us to find a solution. Some of us may take solace in burying ourselves in work, at the gym, or our kids activities. For some that may work for others it might work for a bit or not all. I think if we are on here it might be the latter. I think we all experience peaks and valleys in our relationships and we may think the world of our SO. There comes a time that we just have to be a bit selfish and take the time to fill those needs. That’s the situation where a lot of us are in. I’m not looking to change anyone’s situation. I’m hoping that we can make it better for each other and hopefully get us through that rut. That’s a lot to digest and I apologize for the dissertation.

With that out of the way, let me introduce myself. I’m a 37 year old husband/parent, who is a hard working professional. At first glance I’m the typical soccer dad that’s the first to help and last leave the field. I don’t try and bring attention to myself and find that I’m sneaky attractive. I’m hwp and workout multiple times a week. I’m a huge dork that love books. Like the real ones not the ones on tablets!

Ideally I would like to find a someone who can chat regularly and develop a spark that leads to a deeper connection. Eventually if things progress I would very much like to meet up. If you’re looking for a quick ONS type of situation please do not respond.

I don’t have a certain look or type so I’m open to all body types ranging from thin and fit to curvy mom bod. More than anything I’m looking for someone with a good sense of humor, nice smile and also married.

If you read this far shoot me a message with the most recent book you have read. Audiobooks don’t count lol. Pic not required, but will get you a fast pass and I promise to be kind if I’m not digging it.