First off, let's be honest with each other. I haven't even chatted with you but my guess is you're recently out of a relationship. There's no shame in that. These things take their course. And I think so many of us come to these subs hoping to fill that void; longing to rediscover that energy and excitement. The hope and desire to connect with someone special. The attraction, friendship, chemistry, talking, sharing, flirting, laughing, traveling, shopping, dining, and of course the mind-bending passion.

I fully understand. I've experienced it too. It's more than possible. And I'm here for the same reasons you are.

Maybe you thought your last AP was the greatest love of your life. Maybe your heart was broken. If so, I'm genuinely sorry. But I'm also here to tell you that you can absolutely level-up and leave the past in the past.

I'm attractive, an active gym goer, smart, funny, very successful, and of course married. From the outside looking in, I'm the man that seemingly has it all. You know the type. I'm self-aware and very much in touch with my feelings. I've done my therapy work and have a good handle on what makes me uniquely me.

You're hot. And you know if you are or aren't. But you're equally attractive on the inside. You have both the mental horsepower and the physical beauty that turns heads. Further, you have a tender heart and you don't give access to just anyone. It takes some time and trust to fully open up. But when you do, it's the greatest gift you can give someone. If there was a definition of a unicorn you are most certainly it.

Now, enough with the lurking and assuming every garbage post from a man is tied to a dumpster fire of a person. While that is probably 99% true, there is still the remaining 1%. I'm one of them. Come say hello and tell me a little more about yourself.

PS: I live in the upper midwest but I'm also an avid and frequent traveler. Your location to me is of less importance. If there is the connection and desire then everything falls into place exactly the way it's meant to.