I'm a mid 40s guy living and working in the western Philadelphia suburbs, looking for a genuine connection. Married for many years, multiple kids who I adore, overall a happy life but a stale / non-existent connection in the bedroom. I am hoping to find someone similar, with similar interests who is also looking to add a connection in their life.

A little about me: I have a fulfilling career that keeps me active but gives me flexibility which is beneficial for this. I have done this in the past successfully and hope to repeat similar success. I enjoy staying active and being outdoors. Most mornings, I try to get a workout in and many evenings are spent coaching/playing some sport with my kids. While I'm not a big TV watcher, I can binge watch a true crime documentaries like no one else. I'm also a big foodie, cooking at home as much or maybe more than going out. I like a good drink too, whether it's red wine, a tequila, or bourbon. For work, I get to travel around the US although most times it's not 'vacation relaxing.' Vacations tend to be more adventurous trips with lots of activities.

I'm looking for someone around my age who is intelligent, enjoys good conversation, and appreciates an active lifestyle. Ideally, you'd also have some flexibility in your schedule and availability. A good sense of humor is a must as dad jokes are my specialty. I understand the complexities of this type of situation and value open communication and mutual respect.

My preferred characteristics in a partner are: someone around my age who is intelligent, enjoys good conversation, and has a similar active lifestyle. Best if you have some flexibility in your schedule for dates and activities. Someone who appreciates a good sense of humor as dad jokes are my specialty. Is open to a real connection and meeting in person. I'm not necessarily looking for someone in an exact situation, but rather someone who's looking for more out of life and is ready for a genuine connection.

If this sounds like you, I'd love to hear from you. Please tell me a bit about yourself and what resonated with you in my post vs a quick hi.