Life?

They say it is what you make it. So I ask, why make it anything but exciting and fun!

I think excitement consists of a lot things other than bedroom action. This is why I am looking for someone that is down to earth, fun, understanding, sensitive and can relate to the real life and its stressors. So many ads on here are superficial and just want sex. That is all great but I am looking for just a little more than just great sex! I want someone I can relate to. Someone who likes to talk and listen. And I am not asking you to be the love of my life either. I would just like to find something in common between us. A connection!

I am a very direct to the point type of person. I have read some of these post and most guys just talk about their c*cks and not what they can offer or looking for!! And by no means am I knocking them, well maybe just a little. So I will write this post in a very straightforward way and hope that it will resonate with someone out there!

So here is what is on my mind:

The simple truth is sex becomes boring after a period of time unless you can add some zest to it. Wife want to try something different but worry about their husbands wondering why? Husbands also want to try something different but also worry.....what would my wife say, aren't you satisfied with me anymore?

For me, I have a high libido and creative sense of eroticism. I love my home life and have no interest in leaving it in any way. But given the right person and chemistry, I would be interested in having a special friendship. With that in mind, I have to stress I am not looking to exchange my current life for another. I instead am hoping to find a discreet female who can add an additional special spice to my life as well as hers. A female with whom there would be no drama and/or stalker worries with. It would be something special that we both could enjoy and indulge in on an occasional basis.

I would prefer you to be a married woman ( but separated okay too). Why married? Greater discretion, plus we both understand exactly how far things should and can go. I promise not to harbor any illusions of you eloping with me (trust me, that's the last thing on my mind) if you promise not to spout ridiculous stuff about leaving your husband. But I really do not care about your relationship status as long as you can accept being the other woman.

I am VERY DISCREET, VERY SELECTIVE and do not just jump into bed with anyone. I am mentally stable, healty, very ambitious, super sense of humor, very positive, supportive, full of energy, attractive, clean cut, educated, very drug and disease free. Your body type is not important, your attitude is. I am not into eternal e-mails/pen pals/email buddies (please do not take that as I do not want to get to know you first either. I just feel in emails people tend to make themselves up to be someone they are not. Plus personal interaction cannot be captured in an email. So in short in order for this to work, there must be some sort of chemistry between us. If you are not serious and do not want to meet, please do not waste our time. Either way may you find what you seek and the best of wishes!!!