So, here I am, like many of you, yearning for that lost connection, passion, and novelty. That spark and feeling of intoxication and fulfillment that comes with the desire to be known and desired. As an outgoing and enthusiastic person, I find my marriage to be satisfactory but lacking in excitement. I’m seeking someone to connect with, but I suppose that’s where I’m a bit of a dreamer. I’m looking for a partner who’s a bit of a contrast to me.

If you find yourself in these contrasting parameters, let’s chat and see if we have any potential for further exploration.

Are you someone who:

• Is sophisticated, professional, well-spoken, well-read, and savvy, yet also able to let loose, chat about binge-worthy TV shows, and enjoy pop culture?

• Can effortlessly select a nice bottle of champagne for Apres Ski while also seeking out the deepest and fluffiest powder on the mountain?

• Can effortlessly carry both a stylish handbag for a night out on the town and a backpack for a hike through the forest, and do you have both high heels and hiking boots?

• Can enjoy a multi-course prix-fixe menu but also relish a delicious dive bar burger?

• Is seen as an upstanding person in their community but also has a playful side?

• Can find this place we create together as an escape from the everyday, yet simultaneously discuss the everyday in texts and chats?

• Can be serious and deep, yet also laugh at themselves and enjoy a joke at their own expense?

• Can think to yourself, “Who is this guy?” while simultaneously thinking to yourself, “Who is this guy?” as if you were a mummy and grinning?

There are many more of these contrasting parameters that could make us a perfect match for each other. Perhaps you have your own that you might suggest back to me. Let’s chat and see. The worst that could happen is you realize that you spent some time and words with someone who isn’t your cup of tea.