I feel like this place has gotten so disposable. Quick ghosting, low effort conversation, closed off responses. I really want to find someone who is willing to get into this with me. No surface level BS. Maybe we want to change our situations for once?

It’s that time of year where it seems to amplify how unhappy you are/may be with your spouse. I know it does for me, so here I am.

A little about me - Married, of course. I’m a pretty simple, easy going guy. I am confident in saying I am handsome. I take good care of myself physically and mentally, and I tend to enjoy the finer things in life. I have a career that I’ve excelled quite a bit in, and am proud of. Physically I am tall, in good shape, and well groomed/kept. Personality wise, I’d say I definitely lean more so dominant and old fashioned/traditional. I’ve always acted older than my age would suggest. I like to think I’m well spoken and sociable. Beyond all that, I am a dad, so being a parent is a very important part of my life. I don’t really have all that much time for hobbies anymore, but when I do, I’d say they pretty much include sports, cooking, and reading. I’m a bit of a non-fiction nerd, and I love learning.

What/who I am looking for - honestly I’m pretty flexible on this. Age doesn’t make a big difference to me. Slightly older women seem to be a better match, but don’t let this be a deal breaker. Personality matters the most. I need someone who likes to chat and is excited to be doing this with me. I’m not going to pretend looks don’t matter, because they do, but they won’t get you very far if you have the personality of a paper bag. If you’re someone who is at least pretty active and enjoys taking care of themselves and looking nice, then we will get along. Confidence goes a long way with me. Oh it should go without saying that I’d like something long term and serious. Please don’t reach out if you’re happy with your spouse. This won’t work if you’re happily married.

I think we both get to be a bit picky here, but if any of this resonates with you, or you feel like you may be what I’m looking for, please send me a chat telling me a little bit about you. I prefer Snapchat, but am open to telegram if we hit it off.