The holidays are here, life feels hectic, and the stress is real. This time of year can get overwhelming, and I’m craving a happy little escape — someone to chat with, share laughs, and make my day brighter. If you’re looking for the same, keep reading.

A little about me:

• 38, female, and a mom — so multitasking is a superpower.

• 5’2”-ish (height doesn’t define the size of my personality).

• BBW on the smaller side — working on it, but staying open about it.

• Demisexual, so connection > surface-level sparks.

• Brown hair, brown eyes, glasses (yes, the librarian look can happen).

• Compliments on my eyes and lips, but I’ll let you decide for yourself.

You might be my match if you’re:

• Caucasian, between 35 and 45, and bring some maturity to the table.

• Taller (since I’m on the shorter side, let’s balance it out).

• From Canada (because, let’s keep the logistics realistic).

• A fan of women with curves and confidence.

• Someone who genuinely wants to connect, talk about everything, and find joy in the little moments.

What I’m not looking for:

• One-night stands.

• Pure sexting partners (words are sexy, but depth is better).

• Someone who can’t travel if our connection grows.

• People who are dull, detached, or just here to pass time.

Also: • Communication is everything to me. If you’re not someone who enjoys consistent, meaningful conversations, we won’t click.

• No-effort messages will be ignored. If you’re not putting in the time, neither am I.

• Please don’t ghost. If you’re not feeling it, just say it. We’re adults — honesty goes a long way.

If this resonates, slide into my DMs and tell me about yourself:

• Your age and location.

• What you look like (let’s face it, there needs to be some physical attraction).

• Your music genre of choice.

• Your zodiac sign.

I’m ready to escape the ordinary — are you?