I'm a 51 year old married white male still looking for that elusive connection, that perfect blend of friendship, excitement, and passion that we all desire. To get my details out of the way, I have an athletic to hwp body depending on my workout commitment that month but I am not obsessive about working out, it just makes me feel better when I do! I'm average height, just under 6' tall, have a shaved head, beard, and some tattoos. Personality wise, I like to describe myself as a cool nerd, although some might leave the cool off! I have the stereotypical likes, hiking, biking, reading, and being outside in general, but I guess we like them because they are fun! Music is important to me, I have played guitar since my early teens and once had glorified dreams of being a rock star! I love to cook and eat, hence the working out, and I have also traveled a lot.

I have no particular type that I am looking for. I am living in a roommate/dead bedroom situation and, while I am not looking to change anyone's situation (obligatory phrase), I am looking to add some companionship, fun and excitement back in to our lives. It would be great to find partner for both a friendship and sexual connection, as the first makes the second so much better. I have a relatively flexible schedule, meeting during the day is normally easier but weekends and evenings are not out of the question.

I am very much an open book, I find that is the best way to be on here. I am happy to answer any questions and also share pictures early on to make sure that physical connection is there. I would like to move off Reddit when we are comfortable, as I really don't like Reddit chat but there is no rush. I hope you are having a great weekend so far and, if this post resonates with you, I really hope to hear from you.