Based on what I do, caution and discretion are critical. I’m looking to start an exciting affair with a lovely woman who doesn’t take herself too seriously. As I don’t. Sure we’re driven and ambitious and effective, but time spent behind closed doors should allow us to lower our guard and be open to each other. Time needs to slow down. I’m looking for someone able to be present as I will be the same.

I’m looking for one person who is looking for one person. Everything else is just too risky and it’s nice to be able to focus on one person. To think about you when we’re not together.

I won’t be able to go to dinners. I know, cheap date. But you may also not want that attention. We should meet for coffee indeed. Make out in the hallway.

You can be single or married. I’m open minded on age to a point.

What am I like? What am I looking for? Some say I’m attractive. That’s for you to decide. I’m 6’3”. I’m muscular from lifting heavy things but not a model. I’m into health and exercise simply to stay young and I look younger than my age. There’s some dadbod sure but I take care of myself. I’m intelligent and well educated. I am very sweet and looking for the same. I am attracted to good conversation and wit and laughter shared between two partners.

Femininity is attractive to me. Curves. Breasts. Heels Lingerie. Long hair. The quiet smile of a confident but submissive woman. I’m looking for a woman who takes care of her mind and body as I do. Who likes to laugh and can make me laugh. Who helps keep the conversation going because that’s what interesting people do.

I live and work downtown. I’m clean and you must be too. This is a must. I’m also snipped. Sexually, I have an open mind and it’s exciting to explore interests together if there’s a connection between us.

We need to be able to talk and laugh together first. Let’s get to know each other first via chat. I'm not in a rush.

Please send a note and include - because it’s reddit - your age, single/married status and location. I look forward to learning more about you. Local only.