Hi, thanks for taking the time to check out my posting. I am a 40 year old married dad of one looking for an awesome, educated & fun and professional woman. I have a fulfilling career that I love and a lot of. During my free time I’m usually chasing after the kid, reading (more often than not it’s a touch and feel book), lifting, photographing nature or playing rugby and hockey. Like most here my marriage is fairly disconnected, I essentially live with a middling friend at this point.

As for my looks, I've got a rugged outdoors look & my elderly neighbor says I am strikingly handsome. I'm a little over 6 feet (for real, not like 5'8 and hoping) and my build is that of a man that is no stranger to hard work, think lumberjack, even though my job is fairly white collar. Lucky enough to have azure blue eyes and hair that crosses between darkish blonde and brown. Currently tanned from working outside over the summer, a really great smile that is a little lopsided, a sharp and witty sense of humor and a positive outlook on life.

Traits of the person i would ideally like to meet (not hard and fast requirements)

-Between 23 and 45, i realize this is a wide range but i learned long ago not to judge a book by its cover

-Conversationalist, we can't be talking all day but some effort is appreciated

-Self-aware, we are going to be doing something covert, trying to always cover up easily avoidable tracks will wear thin fast

-Enjoys some form of activity like going to the gym or yoga. Lately I am finding myself really attracted to women that look like they have or are currently playing softball or rugby.

I am down to trade pictures early on, this makes it easier for everyone, and to this point have never ghosted anyone, nor do I intend to. I have no problem texting throughout the day, especially since communication is key for something like this to function. Even more if you want a great intimate connection.

If you made it this far thanks for spending a few min doing so, and if i don't hear from you good luck on your own journey