I’m a 39-year old married man looking for a friend with benefits in Missouri. For me, the emphasis on this potential relationship is as much on the “friends” part as it is on the “benefits” part. I’m staying in my marriage for the kids, so (here it comes… wait for it…) I’m not looking to change my situation or for you to change yours. I miss having a stimulating emotional and mental connection with a person as much as a physical and sexual one. I’d like to find someone with whom to share conversations on a daily basis. We can talk about anything and everything: the co-worker who has evolved into your work nemesis, the dichotomy of good and evil, our favorite movies and shows, our deepest longings and most whimsical dreams. I want to be friends first and see if we have chemistry that can grow into a good old-fashioned affair.

My interests change periodically. I’m always interested in space, the final frontier. I love a good (or even a bad) MCU movie or series. I like video games, gravitating toward single-player games with great narratives. I like to read, and often find that books are my escape to another world. Maybe you could be my reading buddy - our own personal book club of two! I like the outdoors and find that being outside brings me much more peace than being trapped inside four walls. I’m kind, sincere, and I try to be open and honest (if occasionally a little direct and blunt). I’ve got a great career. I think I’m handsome in a cute kind of way but I know I’m not everyone’s type, so let’s just trade pictures early to see if there’s a mutual attraction.

I don’t have a long wish list of things I’m looking for in my special friend. Minds and hearts matter a lot more to me than the inches around your waist or the size of your breasts. I want to know what you think and how you think. I want to know where your joy comes from and I want to walk through our disappointments together. Please be between 28 and 45 and open to meeting in-person with the right person when the time is right.

If you’re interested in starting this adventure together, send me a chat request with your age and tell me about one of your favorite things to do after work on Friday night!