Hi there! I'm a 47 year old guy living in Scandinavia. I work as a software engineer and have done so for a few years by now. I have a master's degree in Computer Science.

Instead of writing a long paragraph I'll list some (random?) facts about me.

• Married for 27 years now and things have dulled slowly for some time now. We are on the slow path to becoming roommates, but that doesn't mean I want out.
• 6’2 feet tall, brown hair and blue-greyish eyes - fairly normal build.
• I have a busy job, but I'll make time and an effort to talk throughout the day. But like every other job I have a risk of being unable to be looking at my phone for a few hours due to meetings etc.
• Socialable person that loves getting to know someone. Not just the small things but everything.
• I like the outdoors and I love photography - I don't get to spend enough times of these hobbies due to work stress but hopefully I'll find the time for it again.
• I run and workout a lot and I love doing so. Have worked as a personal trainer for a few years on the side while I was doing my master's degree.

What am I seeking?

• I'm looking for you? In reality just that special someone that will make me smile at my phone. That someone that makes heartbeat quicken every time I feel the buzz from my phone. Someone that makes me laugh. Someone that makes me feel seen, cared for and loved? Technically all of the things we are most likely both missing.
• I'm not looking for a one week thing. I'm looking for something that can potentially become longterm. I'm not here to change any situations (the mandatory line). I want to feel the chemistry building and I want to have the sinking feeling of missing you when I go to bed at night.

I want to get to someone who can make me laugh and who is comfortable being intimate early on. I'm curious for a sexual connection, and I want to be clear about that. Only online, so don't expect any kind of meet-ups. I am not experienced in online play, or roleplay, sexting, or whatever it’s called. Maybe mutual online masturbation? I don’t care how you look along as you are curious and imaginative.

• I'm not afraid to get attached nor am I afraid of getting vunerable with you. Hopefully you'll be the same.
• Age? I would prefer someone around the 28-55 age range. But would love someone who is a little older than me.

I'm very open to other platforms if we establish a connection but I would love to start off on Reddit. Other platforms that I am willing to use are mainly; Snapchat. I would love to somewhat early on exchange pictures to ensure that there is an attraction (or rather that you're attracted to me haha - I have no doubt in my mind I'll find you extremely mesmerizing.)