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I’ve been married 5 years, and up until a little over 2 years ago I was a “big” guy, i put that in quotes because i carried it well. I’m 5’8 and was almost 300lbs most of it was muscle with a hefty “beer gut”. Well i decided that i was way unhealthy and it was time for a change!!! I had the gastric sleeve done and i lost an absolute fuckton of weight. I’m now 170ish lbs and my wife does not initiate sex, isn’t playful, just overall, there’s no passion. I’ve talked to her about it and she’s said things like “I fell in love with the old you” “I didn’t want you to have the surgery in the first place”. The word resentment even made an appearance. At the time of surgery we had one baby and since then have had another but not because she initiated the passion. She’s also since asked me to get a vasectomy. Is it over? Talk to me. Is there anything i can do to bring back the fire?
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