Not Your Typical 41-Year-Old here. I prefer wine over beer. I'm a foodie. I don't play video games or watch sports. As a former college athlete I prefer to participate—life's too exciting to be a spectator!

I'm a happy-go-lucky guy with a perpetual smile and a glass-half-full attitude. I love cheesy rom-coms and have a soft spot for trashy reality TV (because who doesn't enjoy a good plot twist?). I can be nerdy at times, especially with tech and Marvel movies.

I love to travel and explore new places. I've journeyed through over 20 countries and picked up three languages along the way (perfect for discreet conversations 😉). My friends would describe me as passionate, adventurous, and witty.

I'm a business owner and love my job. It keeps me busy and it allows me to travel quite frequently.

In terms of looks, people usually say I don't look my age. I just hope they mean I look younger! 😂 I'm 6'2, black hair, and in good shape.

I'm a happy person who feels happy with life, but there's something missing—that's where you come in! I'm looking for a long-term connection, not just a "one night-virtual-stand." More, like a "bestie with benefits."

I would love to have friendship without judgment or jealousy. Only understanding. But also be able to fulfil each other's sexual desires in a way that satisfies both. I am a very sexual person, but I require a strong connection first.

I would love to find a confident woman who isn't afraid to speak their mind and bust chops. If you enjoy engaging conversations filled with wit and flirtatious banter, we might just be a perfect match!

My love languages are acts of service and words of affirmation, so you can bet I'll have your back and remind you how amazing you are. And yes, I'll call you "beautiful" and maybe even "princess" or "good girl" if that's your thing!

I'm not here to spouse bash, or change your situation. I just want us to be a positive addition to our lives and help each other fill that missing piece. After all, that's why we're here, right? I am discreet and will respect all boundaries you set. I expect the same in return. I'm open to meeting in person if we hit it off.

To break the ice, how about this: Tell me two truths and a lie about yourself, and I'll guess the lie. Your move!

Looking forward to meeting you, bestie!