My wife is a good partner and mom. Unfortunately, she has stopped being a good friend and wife. She has no interest in any type of connection with me and dismisses any comments about needing to spend time on our relationship. I’m unhappy with my marriage and trying to improve but happy in other areas of my life. I miss a genuine connection and spark with someone.

I’m looking for someone to emotionally connect with first. You should be able to carry a conversation with me and be interested in things. We don’t have to share the same interests but it’s important that you are passionate about something other than your work.

I want someone who understands what it’s like to be in a dead bedroom but not interested in ruining our lives for each other. I’m looking for someone that has a mutual understanding of putting our home life first, but still coming back to me when you can and finding moments to sneak away to let the other person know you are thinking about them. I want to make you feel desired and shower you with attention. I also want to feel desired and wanted. It’s lonely feeling unwanted.  

I want to hear about everything. Your day, what you are thinking about, how you are feeling, your job, what books you are reading or movies you are watching. I want to hear about your dreams and future goals. I want to dream with you too. I know our situations won’t change but I want to catch feelings for you and make space in my heart for someone.  

About me: I love hiking and being outdoors. I enjoy exercising but not a gym bro. I really enjoy trying new foods. I enjoy my career and have been blessed to work on interesting problems through my career. I’m a golden retriever at heart (silly, goofy, easy to please, and will eat anything). I try not to take myself too seriously.

I’m willing to exchange SFW pics early on to see if there is mutual attraction. If we connect, I’m willing to share pictures, speak on the phone, video call, and potentially meet up if the relationship is strong