While I'm sure many people looking for an AP on Reddit are seeking understanding and soul connections, I also think there's a lot of beating around the bush and evading the truth and it leads to misunderstanding and torturous exchanges that are doomed for ghosting. People, particularly men, are using throwaway accounts so they're potential AP won't know how thirsty they are! How they dabble in NSFW posting and commenting.

The naughty is in the name of this sub for a reason, right? I would love to find an FWB, but the B is very important. I live with my F and the missing B is why I'm here. I want to feel sexual vibes when we chat and trade photos and voice notes and consider whether we can meet. I want to enjoy seeing you with few clothes on and I want you to feel the same about me!

Isn't that why a lot of us are here? Because when we change before bed our spouses don't put the book down? Or they stopped finding a fake excuse to walk into the bathroom when we're showering? Or when we bring up a sexual topic of any kind, they change the subject?

I wish to be upfront here: I'm naughty, and it's due to neglect by my SO. And I'm looking for a woman who is in the same spot and wants to be naughty with someone like me. That's where the spark will come from, where the butterflies will escape, why we'll want to sneak looks at the phone and sit in our cars leaving voice notes best meant for using headphones (NOT the Bluetooth kind!).

I'm 52 and a total professional during the day, working a demanding job and being an active member of the community. I mentor and network and put on a nice shirt most days. I don't have tattoos or a six pack. And I do post photos here with the primary goal of attracting a woman who will want to scuff the boots with me. I love to make out and laugh and share a glass of bourbon.

Thank you for reading my Ted Talk.