You're out there, I know it.

Me: Fit/ athletic 43yo, professional, white male 6'0, 185, dark brown hair, blue/green/ hazel eyes. I'm attractive and often told that I look 5-10 years younger-great genes I guess. I take my health (physical, mental and emotional) very seriously.

I'm passionate about health/fitness, cycling, self-growth, music, travel, deep conversations and helping others. I work out 4-5 days/ week- for both the physical and mental benefits.

Personality wise, I'm charming, thoughtful, witty, open-minded, playful, excellent communicator, well managed ego, emotionally intelligent, direct/ transparent, sensual and affectionate. I dont take myself too seriously. I'm a fun guy to be around.

I prefer someone local but am open to women who travel to Chicago frequently for work. I'm also open to strong connections in cities where I travel for work (mainly Milwaukee, Detroit, Dallas, Indianapolis, Minneapolis, Nashville). But I'm not looking for a LD thing, if we connect, I want to meet fairly frequently.

Physical and emotional connections are important to me- something consistent and preferably long term. We can decide what that looks like but obviously something fulfilling for both of us-while respecting each other's boundaries. I want us to be discreet partners in crime, confidantes, etc. Let's fill those gaps that have been missing for too long.

My travel schedule allows me A LOT of flexibility in terms of meeting and my OPSEC is extremely solid. I've have experience with this and prefer the same.

You: attractive, fit, affectionate/sensual, great communication skills, open-minded, and kind. The perverbial "lady in the streets, naughty in the sheets" type. I don't have a "type" per se but I take care of myself and keep in great shape so expect the same. We should exchange pictures early to confirm attraction.

You don't have anything to lose by chatting to see if we vibe. Just know that I will not respond to low effort messages.