When you were younger, your safe space was on your knees. Now it is in his arms but a part of you remembers, aches, and is eager to feel it once again. How quickly the heart hides our deepest desires, sometimes even from ourselves.

I will be plain to ensure there are no misunderstandings; I am looking to train a woman as a slave. You do not need experience, you don't need a toy chest that would make a street walker blush. What you must possess is a fire that yearns to be caged and kept.

What is a slave? Is she a thing? A toy? Ignored when convenient and used when I am ready? Yes to all the above but there is so much more to it than that. There is a passion, an intimacy, an indescribable sense of wholeness when you reach out and grasp her hand.

I am a 37 year old Dominant from Virginia, married for 14 years and have 2 lovely children with a very vanilla wife. Throughout the years, I've tried and failed numerous times to quench this side of me. There is something intrinsic to being a dominant that I can't escape. Moving on, breaking things to find myself feels incredibly petty and selfish.

So dear reader, I find myself here, talking to you about what might be. Could we find the lost dreams that we once had? Can we rekindle fantasies long cold? Do you yearn to kneel once more, eagerly anticipating yet fully out of control?

As a dominant, I tend to be very affectionate and empathetic. However, I am also a sadist and love humiliation. This means that I will find your darkest desires and lovingly drown you in them. You will be held accountable by my strict nature, laugh at my turning of phrases, and melt into my voice.

For anyone who is interested, I want to make the following very clear. This in intended to be online and while a meeting is certainly in the cards, it will not be rushed.

The minimum I am looking for is someone submissive, able to voice and video chat with trust, with open availability throughout the day, and able to hold a conversation. Everything else can be taught and trained.

As a closing thought, these are a few of the kinks I enjoy,: orgasm control, tpe, humiliation, objectification, bondage, daily rules and tasks, secretive public play, pain, and overstimulation.