I never really saw myself here, but life is too short to not say hello-- So here goes! Hi! For starters, I am so fucking fun, but mature and intelligent (I mean, ya know 40's fun!), I'm super vibrant,  educated, will certainly impress you, and looking for someone who makes me laugh. I'm a bit selective with whom I choose to vibe with so please be mindful that I am looking for something real, without changing our situations. I'm attractive, I know my self worth, and my emotional intelligence is fairly high! Your emotional intelligence and your being put together is high on my list of perimeters. I would like to exchange msgs with someone.

If you are prone to ditching someone if you do catch feelings, please do not message me. Of course, I realize that guilt is part of this process, and conversely, if you haven't any guilt nor second guessing about this, please don't contact me. I sorta know what I vibe with. I am looking for a connection with someone who can identify and understand the gray area of this. If you can acknowledge and still navigate these tricky waters, I might be who you are looking to connect with. I'm real and I'm looking for the same in return. I have complexity and depth, but in a sexy and cute package of course!

I am married, so OPSEC must be on point, and not looking to change my situation or yours, just looking for a connection. I can't do this without a connection, and I can tell quickly if that connection is not authentic, so please don't bother if you are looking for quick fun, that's not for me either. Chances are, you want this secret friendship as much as I do! But are we a match? You can't possibly be match with everyone, and that's ok. That's what makes a found connection so awesome, right? So onto the fun stuff....I am looking for fun chats, lots of laughs, maybe coffee, looking for a friend at least. If you need sexy shit now and you want to send pics in the first few msgs, we're not a match. That stuff happens organically and otherwise feels forced. I like sexy shit too, but I need depth and emotion first. I'm hoping to feel that rush, the magnetic energy- let it be fucking exhilarating, the fun and laughs- I want it to be real. Those secret texts, and the buildup- they are so fun! I want it all.

Please respond if this might be for you. It would be nice to know whatever you are comfortable telling me initially- your age, location, favorite bands, hobbies, some info about work/education, even if you need to be vague for the first couple msgs. Tell me something funny, I miss smiling and laughing about nothing and everything. You know that feeling...<3 Thx.