Like a happy but slightly lonely radio disc jockey playing tunes at midnight, I'm sending vibes out into the ether hoping that a kindred spirit might hear hear them and tune in.

We were meant to live for more than just paying bills and meeting obligations. Maybe you're like me and going through the monotony of daily life and wishing for something that adds a little "zest". It's not that you're unhappy with life - far from it! You're perfectly content, happy as a clam. But you feel the urge to add a little risk to your settled life.

If you're like me then you are happily married and living in a mostly satisfying platonic relationship. Over the years your lover became your best friend and roommate. Most of your needs are met but not all of them and you yearn for someway to satisfy those needs discreetly. I get it. I am also in the same situation.

It's not your fault - truth be told it's no ones fault. This is just the natural consequence of creating a shared life with someone else. We trade excitement and novelty for security and stability. No one person can provide everything we need and it's both foolish and selfish to demand they do.

I'm searching for someone who finds themselves in a similar situation and is willing to explore the alternative. I offer discretion and absolute respect for your boundaries in return for the same consideration.

I'm hoping to find someone I vibe with. Usually thats an open minded, professional woman who takes herself serious - however not overly seriously. Someone that enjoys a random chit chat, and also a sexy chat. Someone who is confident with a splash of sass.

You should reach out to me if you are interested. Worst case scenario? We aren't a good match and it ends there. But best case scenario? We find what we need in each other and it's incredible.

What have we really got to lose?