We are both here because of something lacking that we need again. Maybe the bedroom is dead, or emotional responses are gone, perhaps just missing the thrill of the mutual flirtation.

I want to feel something when I see a notification from you.  A smile across my face as I guess if you’re just saying hi and checking on the day, maybe you found something funny or interesting to share, or perhaps it is flirty enough to make my eyes go wide

That said I'm not looking for a quick hook up/one nightstand.  I want a connection, something that can go long term.  I would like to see if we click here, share a selfie, and then move to Telegram where communication and notifications are much easier.

I'm in Florida also open to online and we can take it from there, I would hopefully like to have visitations every so often once those details and our distances is ironed out.

Me:      I'm a 40 year old male, bachelor's degree, women find me attractive more often then they don't, more of an athletic to average build, I work out two or three days a week mostly to just make sure that I still look good naked, I have a career, two younger kids. My hobbies include hiking, camping, kayaking, nerding out to movies, love going to see a nice local band or cover band at a laid back style bar/restaurant .

You:    A nice smile is a great start.  Intelligence is hot.  Kinky minded, Great!  I enjoy a lot of outdoor activities and hope you do as well or at least live an active life style.  I don’t want to sound like a jerk but I am not over weight and ideally you are height and weight proportional too.

Let's start off with a deep conversation: What is the weirdest/strangest food you have eaten?  Do good girls deserve a spanking too? Bigfoot…why can’t we find him?