Basically I'm in a long term relationship which I don't presently wish to leave, but in which I'm not getting nearly enough sexual attention. Or attention in general, really, I'm kind of a needy motherfucker. Anyway, I'm white, 5'11, 185Ib, in relatively great shape, and kind of a nerd. Or at least I'm into nerdy interests.

Professionally I'm a chef and I would love to show off and talk about food. Sexually I would say I lean more dominant but I'm not a super experienced bdsm person. I feel I might be relatively vanilla... I think my biggest kink is probably the whole breeding thing? except i'm not trying to have kids. So maybe it's more of an extreme creampie fetish? idk. There are some other things I'm into but I would rather discuss while getting to know you ;b

I would also say that I am definitely looking for someone who is interested in something longer term, not just a one night stand. I'm a bit of an introvert so it's kind of a bit of emotional effort to get to know somebody in general, and I'm not looking to put a lot of effort into something that's just going to be one meet up... that being said, I might not be able to meet very often due to needing to be sneaky. It kinda depends too on your situation.

I should also probably say that while I don't necessarily have a particular type, I am not attracted to women who are overweight. I would say "anyone who describes themselves as a BBW," but I have met several women who would use that term but idk I think I have a different criteria than they do. Anyway, it's not like I have a size difference kink, but basically it's a turn off when I feel smaller than my partner. And I'm not really a small guy with my build. So. Idk. Not to seem shallow, but I felt I should mention this preference to avoid wasting anyone's time or hurting anyone's feelings!

That's a bit about me, if you have any questions feel free to ask.

If you message me, please at least tell me a little about yourself (age, where you're from, what makes you interested in responding) so I don't have to ask literally every person who responds those things, thank you <3

P.s. I am also open to MF4M situations provided y'all are fine with my situation