Hi there! And thanks for stopping in to read my ad. Yes, this is a longer one. But you should read it.

All these posts on reddit. Wow. Each one so different from the next. Most are poorly written. Many, just looking for sex. Tons of spam. And others still are just plain strange. Right? But every once in a while you stumble upon something different and unique. Something that catches your attention. Something that resonates with you.

Here's my story... I'm a very fun, witty, intelligent, fit, charming, attractive, and professional guy. I'm also married. No games or lies here. But after many years the relationship has evolved into a friendship more than anything. I would describe us as really good roommates.

I decided to post an ad because I'm looking for more in my life. I want to feel alive. I want to fill in the missing pieces and bond with an amazing woman who finds herself in a similar situation. I'm searching for an intelligent, fit, emotionally mature woman who wants an amazing friendship first and foremost. But a secret friendship nonetheless. I'm looking for a friendship where we can both be free and open to talk about and explore all the things that have been pent up for much too long without any judgments. A friendship with anticipation and flirting and laughter and fun and travel and dining and exploration.

But there are a few things that are certain for me... in order for this to happen successfully there must be a connection of the minds. There needs to be chemistry, respect, trust, and mutual physical attraction. Too many people are just looking for sex. They forget that the only way to have genuine intimacy and fun is to have a foundation of all these things. They're much too important. And they take time to build.

On the outside I'm a very normal, down-to-earth guy who is great at communicating. I have deep, long standing friendships. I am well read and well educated. I also have a terrific sense of humor and great self awareness. Physically, I'm 5'9" and in decent shape and I maintain impeccable hygiene. My days can be busy with a successful career and all that goes into juggling an active social and family life.

The right woman for me can appreciate all these things because it describes her too. You're intelligent, funny, open, sarcastic, active, and needing more fulfillment in your life. You're a working professional or perhaps a stay at home mom. But on the outside people view you as having your act together. You get it. However, on the inside and in private, you sneak away to reddit from time to time and look. You have a secret side that needs exploring. You want your heart to race again. You need to feel alive. And you can only do that with the right man. Guess what... he's out there.