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40[M4F] Western-ish New York/Earth - You look like you could use a new secret habit!
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YoCoolStoryBro is a male age 40 looking for a female in New York City
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How good and/or how bad of a habit, well that's up for you to decide... I'm too clean for the dirty folks, and too dirty for the clean folks. I'm all about achieving this made up balance of keeping things wholesome with some not so much sprinkled in when the time's right. If I could try to put words to exactly what I'm looking for it could get pretty ridiculous. My piece of perfection is probably something I'm totally unaware of and I kind of prefer it that way, always learning and discovering new to me stuff and things! Be a little different, be a little weird, a little interesting, just be you!

So it starts like a penpal of the future times, with a side of diary or journal perhaps. I want to get into it allll, the little, the big, the silly, the annoying, the serious, the how's and the why's and the ways we work. I like having something extra to think about, ponder, focus on, assist in solving problems, creating them "ah-ha" moments when things just finally make sense. There's no set way or path or direction for this. Although I do keep to a pretty rigorous screening process. I thoroughly enjoy the process of going from strange strangers, to something not so much. This will take a little bit of time, effort, attention, creativity and bandwidth!

It's all about the process, it's how I work, it's the sciencey minded man in me, or wanting to do things the right way every time. Or thorough, I guess that works too. By day I'm a wanna be engineery dude that has to be a perfect perfectionist at all times. I need to know what's going to happen before it happens. That kind of spills into my personal life and ways, usually thinking a few steps ahead.

I'm married, and I don't have any children, I dont mind if you do, it's an extremely admirable quality. Things aren't necessarily terrible at home, I'm not looking to runaway, I'm more just trying to understand more about myself, who and what I am, as well as my wants and needs and even down to what even brings joy daily. I find myself with a little well lotta bit extra to give. I also can be quite the bit of extra at times. Some things are missing and there's just something about that deep emotional digital connection. Get as real as you feel, I really dig real! That's where a someone like you comes in. I want to learn all about you, where you've been, where you're headed, things you enjoy, bring joy, learn the annoyances, the pet peeves, the routines, the places you go and the things you see. I want to get into it all! I'm going to be an addictive addition to your everyday.

It's kind of like a next to no limit pocket person to share all of our stuff and things and secrets and thoughts only we think that nobody else knows, figuring things out together for the however long we can keep things entertaining. Stay til you don't feel it anymore. We can be adults and use our words, they are mostly all we got! It's also kind of like a puzzle, in human form. What will you learn when you put more pieces together. Many sides to discover, phases perhaps, enough for us to chew on. Or something like that.

When I'm not being my perfectionist engineery robot self for the man, I enjoy my rest and relaxation. Lately my down time has me tending to my indoor garden, hiking and taking fun photos in nature, watching stuff that leads to learning something or just laughing at dumb things or researching my next hobby/big purchase, currently learning about 3d printers. Being introspective of sorts my mind is always going. Music is my preferred media, always looking for that next song to do things to me. I seem to weirdly find a lot of relatable music to please my ears my mind and make my heart do funny things. I also am trying to find some creativity within myself. Besides my personality and my character and my whole being(you'll see). Im a sophisticated profesional kind of dude with quite the mysterious silly side. I like to keep myself fun to look at, I like to be a bit show offy when I can, showing my many styles and outfits, looking silly for a laugh, or trying to tease. I like getting all sorts of different reactions. I want to create things I have arty type things, music things, and writing things that I don't really know how to use. Maybe you do, maybe you don't, maybe we can learn things together!

Oh! You totally can be from just about anywhere. Sure I prefer some live messaging time and notifications! We'll have to see how our time lines up for us. Want to join me on a journey? Send me words I can respond to, tell me something about you, or something that made you smile, or something you learned, or something that made you move and or groove.

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