Here we are with a "new" post, unfortunately I am still looking for that long term success. Short term bursts have been my main experience and I would like to find something that could be longer lasting. It's hard to find someone that ticks all the boxes and mirrors your excitement. I am sure we have all experienced it, where one layer is on point but another is lacking. You might find someone very attractive physically but the mental connection or effort is not matched. Or you might have both mental and physical attraction but then distance is an issue. So many factors that could go wrong, but I am just looking for the one that goes right! I hope you are staying optimistic out there as well and maybe we can be that elusive match for each other!

Quick blurb about me and what I am looking for below.

About me: I am married and a parent. The second will always be top priority for me, so I am not looking to change any situations. I am of mixed Spanish and Asian descent, conventionally attractive, dark hair with dark features and to be honest look younger than my age. Try to be active and workout to maintain a somewhat athletic build, average height (about 5'9"). I have a very high burn career that I have built over the past decade and it allows me to travel at times. So there is a good amount of flexibility for AP activities as long as planned ahead. I am big on communication and OPSEC so would ask the same from you.

What I am looking for: Someone who is married and looking for both emotional and physical connection. I don't have a certain type in terms of age or ethnicity. Looking for someone who takes care of themselves both mentally and physically (to the extent they can given busy life responsibilities). Has some what flexible schedule for conversation and as well as planned in person meet ups. If you are confident in yourself and your appearance feel free to reach out! Again - communication and opsec are key for me so hopefully the same for you.