Thank you for taking the time to read my ad. I am really looking for a long-term affair partner. I am hoping to make this post as clear as concise as possible so no one's time is wasted.

I am looking for the total package deal in an affair. I am looking for someone genuine, I am looking for someone who wants both the emotional and the physical aspect in an affair. While the physical aspect is important, I really would like to focus on the emotional aspect and build something special with someone. I want to be passionate about someone and I would hope my someone is passionate about me. I am looking for someone who has the ability to chat through out the day and during some of the evening. I want to be excited to look at my phone and hear from someone. I want to be able to send pictures of things that remind of us each other. Really I am just looking for something genuine.

I am a 36 year old married father who resides in New Jersey. I have a career which gives me the ability to have the free time to chat during the day and also gives me the ability to do some light traveling. While I chose the cushy white collar office job I still enjoy doing blue collar projects. I love doing carpentry, masonry and other construction gigs, I just rather not do it for a living. I have a wide range of hobbies including the gym, snowboarding in the winter, walking in state parks and enjoying nature in the fall, spring and summer. I am really big into music and I always have a playlist going throughout my workday. I generally listen to bands such as Bad Omens, Polaris, BMTH, The Amity Affliction etc.

Physically I am 5'8, HWP, brown hair and eyes and I am happy to send a photo for mutual attraction.

You should be at least 30 and have the time to commit to an affair. This includes you being able to send more than one or two messages per day. I am hoping you have a fun sense of humor, and I hope you would also be a parent. While not a requirement I do find it easier to relate with other parents. If you are not in the listed states, then you should at least reside in the eastern time zone.

I can bring a lot to an affair which includes great communication skills, emotional stability, financial freedom to make an affair work, the ability to provide phone calls, video calls, and voice notes. I am a parent and a husband first but with that in mind I still have the ability to chat during the evenings and some weekends, but please recognize some days might be harder than others. You will not be left wondering if you're being left on read, as I have the ability to communicate when something pops up.

I really can't emphasize enough that I am just looking for a real genuine affair with the proper someone out there, and I really hope my someone makes their way into my chats or DMs.