Married for over 14 years now, and well things are fine. I wouldn't say I am unhappy just as the sub is named, looking for some naughty time through neglect of the naughty side of things.
I am not one to bash my spouse, she is a great strong independent woman. Handles a ton and is a good partner. Though one thing though is she is a strong feminist, and that is great but means doesn't like to sexualize things at all. I dont mean in a demeaning way I am not for that but I do miss just the sexual side of things, Admiring the glorious body of a woman and adoring it. Enjoying that build up and foreplay etc.
My spouse just doesn't really have a sex drive, just not her thing. I've heard it before "try this, try that" been married a long time so yes we have discussed it, talked about it. It just is what it is, just like some people done like Onions, you can try cooking them in different ways or in different things they just aren't a fan of them. Maybe the taste will change but it's not some magic thing I will all of a sudden like onions.
So with that just means that I am left with my high drive and sexual thoughts all to myself, I can't really express them as they aren't wanted.
I know as a guy posting here this wont get much response but hey just more of a vent I guess.
I am a nerd at heart , though I like to say I am a 'cool' nerd. I love motorbikes, have always had some sort of motorcycle since I was 18, raced in college etc. I love fast cars and have many tattoos. I try and stay active, I work out 5-6x a week, cycling and swimming is my thing and just keep working. I am 40 now so it's a bit harder and not the level I was 10 years ago sadly. So I try to keep the dad bod in check as often as I can.
Welp if any of this is of interest feel free to message.
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