Bright summer days are a distant memory, and while fall has so many good things, it’s still easy to feel like something is missing. Like me, maybe seasonal colors catch your eye – but they aren’t what you’re looking for. You’re hoping for something that brightens the day and makes you feel like it’s summer again. And maybe once you find it, you’ll be sure to savor every moment in the sun.

I'm here because I'm searching. I’m also offering a little bit of light and a lot of warmth.

That’s not to say that I’m just a quick flame. That’s not me, and that’s not what I’m looking for. I’m looking for long-lasting, and I hope you are, too.

Me:

I’m the guy you wouldn't expect here, the guy who holds the door as we walk into a restaurant, the guy who sends the text to make sure you made it home and also the one that makes you bite your lip, the guy who listens intently as you talk about your day, and the guy who will help you escape by planning the date and making the reservation.

Physically, I have all my hair and a short beard. I’m 6’1”, attractive, fit. Sometimes I pretend I can still play soccer and have convinced myself that pickleball is a noble athletic pursuit. I’m mature, patient, and self-aware – the deep-thinking, reflective type who enjoys thoughtful conversations. I’m educated, liberal-minded, and value open communication. Music and writing are my creative outlets (winning with minor chords and oxford commas). I’m the dedicated dad who never misses a game and the level-headed guy comfortably in charge at work. I have a great career, but my work also doesn’t define me.

Sexually speaking, I’m attentive in the bedroom and comfortable being in control - respectfully. When you spend time learning each other’s bodies and minds and then letting go of inhibitions and worries… it’s transcendent.

I also have a quick wit and dry sense of humor that really wants to break free from all this “about me” talk.

You:

Married but not completely fulfilled. Attractive and in shape physically (hwp), around 30-55, liberal-minded, educated, and intelligent. You’re mentally active and healthy with interesting hobbies and passions to share. You’re also the rare type here who values honesty and trust. Please be somewhat local to Atlanta/North Georgia, and flexible enough to meet during daytime hours or the occasional overnight or weekend. I like to exchange pics early (telegram/signal) – physical attraction isn’t everything, but it’s important.

If you’re still with me after *all the words*, send me a message. Tell me your favorite fall activity, or better yet…

When was the last time you saw that sunlit pile of leaves and decided to just jump in?