I am in a relationship and logic says I should be happy and satisfied. The relationship checks almost all the boxes, "on paper". I am happy and I don't want to change that but I'm not satisfied. In my deeper thoughts, those boxes that aren't checked are more important than I realized. My desires are not satisfied. I want more. Yet, the "more" is hard to put into words, but a few of those words are passion, excitement, sexy, less vanilla and more spontaneous.

I want and have space in my life for a special discrete friend. I have time to share with someone that desires a connection and a friendship. I just need this new relationship to be our secret. There are more details about this and my availability that we can talk about in a chat rather than here in public.

Who I am looking for is a woman who is playful, kind, drama free, enjoys good/deep conversation, and who is passionate. I want to be someone you can talk to and gain perspective and advice from my experiences in life and I want the same from you. I want someone who values a connection and a friendship like I do. I want an in person relationship, not virtual.

About me, I am 6’ tall, average build, brown hair, hazel eyes and I have a goatee. I take care of myself and have a nice smile with all my teeth :-). I don’t smoke or vape anything, no drugs ever. I do drink socially and would enjoy sharing that with you as well. I have been told by both men and women that I look younger than my age. I am kind, patient, positive, a good listener and very easy to talk with. I enjoy good conversation and want to know you deeper and desire to understand you. I enjoy camping, hiking, swimming, and being outside in the summer. I also enjoy relaxing by a fire or on the couch with a good movie or show. I enjoy good snuggling at the same time if that is something you enjoy too. I am very passionate and my top love language is touch. I am also very much a pleaser. I am however respectful and will never pressure you into anything.

I am looking to fill a void in both of our lives. I am discreet and will keep this secret. This is supposed to be fun and fulfilling. If you are interested and want to know more, please reach out. I will share pictures once comfortable, I know attraction is important too.